Letting go to get something.
we are always pursuing things everyday in our life and this is an endless pursuit, endless. contentment doesnt haf a stand in most of our lives. In this endless pursuit, we are always moving forward till we meet with an obstacle that stops us. But somehow, the trend goes in such that whenever a problem arises, there will always be a solution. The solution is then to think of ways to go pass that obstacle. Have we ever thought that we can actually step back, and search for another way to move forward instead? this is a difficult process as we are always tuned to move in one direction and not to look back.
(in the case of gaining / losing a loved one, we can always move back- just like letting go)